Infidelity, Adultery, Cheating, and Partner Issues in Cologne

Jokingly, in connection with unfaithfulness in Cologne we have already heard that the famous Eau de Cologne, invented by the city’s oldest still-existing company, today Haus Farina, seduces the people of Cologne into affairs, but that does not do justice to the sensitivity of the subject. It is undeniable, however, that the lively nightlife, the Carnival, the extensive green spaces where young and old gather, and the mild climate on the Rhine promenades present temptations for potentially unfaithful partners. And these temptations are often taken. For as painful and cold as it sounds: adultery and infidelity are generally the most frequent reasons for commissioning detectives in Germany. The private detectives of Kurtz Investigations Cologne are accordingly very experienced in this area: +49 221 4558 0377.

 

What our investigations uncover is often extremely distressing for our clients. Yet, in most cases, certainty is also a kind of relief – in the long run probably almost always. Uncovering a lie on the basis of the evidence gathered by our Cologne detectives and taking the necessary consequences prevents our clients from living a life of worry and uncertainty. Instead of wasting years of their lives, many private individuals prefer to make a one-time investment in our services.

Cologne Carnival Is an Infidelity Hotspot

Drinking, raucous partying, sex. This combination is by no means rare during Carnival time in Cologne. Not just for singles, though they are obviously affected, but for others as well. Many a reveller and many a carnival dancer treat the license of Carnival as a licence to cheat. Alcohol reduces inhibitions, physical contact occurs more quickly, the threshold of restraint falls and self-control is easily lost. Costumes also contribute to increased unfaithfulness during Carnival. Many party-goers assume a role when they put on a costume for the duration of the celebration, in which different rules apply — one might call it a second identity that is put on and taken off again.

 

According to a survey, 16 per cent of men attend Carnival solely to find an opportunity for an affair. The deceived partners can often, if they find out, no longer maintain the relationship on the basis of the breach of trust. When our Cologne private detectives are engaged to check a possible case of unfaithfulness, this relationship of trust is usually already damaged. The commissioning partner has typically lived with an uncertainty for several weeks or even months that is slowly eating them away. If you wish to have your partner checked during Carnival, do not hesitate to contact Kurtz Detective Agency Cologne: +49 221 4558 0377.

 

Sad fact in passing: unwanted sexual assaults, that is sexual abuse and rape, are recorded more frequently during Carnival time, adding to an overall increase in case numbers in this area (840 in 2014 with a clearance rate of only just over 60 per cent).

Cultural Diversity Sometimes Leads to Discrepancies

Around 30 per cent of Cologne’s citizens have a migration background. In total, immigrants from 184 countries are represented in the population. Different countries, different customs, as the saying goes. And indeed, “intercultural” sexual behaviour can give rise to considerable discrepancies. Honour killings occur sporadically in Germany and are understandably a major media event each time. Such appalling consequences are absolutely exceptional, but relationships between migrants and Germans without a migration background repeatedly provoke considerable discontent in some traditionalist families; sexual relations before marriage are sometimes regarded as an affront to honour and multicultural infidelity can even lead to threats of violence or murder. Rapes can, beyond the obvious physical and psychological harm, bring further negative consequences for the victim through “punishments” by families. These cases, which may seem absurd to the average Christian-educated German, result primarily from Muslim-traditionalist value systems. However, mere incredulous shaking of the head and sniffing at the idea help little. Dialogue must be sought, and arguments should, where necessary, be supported by facts such as evidence collected by our Cologne detectives.

 

Islam has long been an integral part of Cologne and North Rhine-Westphalia. The proportion of Muslims in Cologne’s population is around 12 per cent. Cultural contrasts should not obscure the predominant commonalities — at least not in theory. Since theory is not always practice, the involvement of our private detectives is often necessary: +49 221 4558 0377.

Suspicions of Unfaithfulness Are Not Always Confirmed

We do not want to tar all subjects with the same brush. It is not uncommon that during our surveillance we find an orderly, calm and entirely innocent everyday life with no indications of unfaithfulness. But in most cases our clients are right (around 75 per cent of suspicions are confirmed by our observations). It is a mere folk belief that men cheat more often; the ratio is absolutely even.

 

If you distrust your partner, obtain certainty through surveillance by our Cologne private detectives. We are sensitive to your particular emotional situation and yet retain the necessary cool head to help you get through stressful situations.